A year ago I published an opinion piece asking Does Brighton have a woman problem?
It described ways in which gender ideology has been used to silence debate and intimidate women, cut female-only services and discriminate against those defending sex-based rights.
All this was in the context of increasing local violence against women and inadequate police response as well as a pending court case brought by Sarah Summers, a survivor of sexual assault refused same-sex peer support by a council-funded charity.
The positive response I received suggested widespread local concern. Awareness had been heightened by national events, from high-profile murders of women, through to concerns about medical practices in gender identity clinics and sexual assaults in mixed hospital wards, as well as the bungled Scottish attempt to enforce gender self-identification, while placing male bodied abusers, such as Isla Bryson, in women’s prisons.
Across the country, in the year that has followed, a slew of high-profile court and tribunal cases, most often brought by women forced out of jobs due to their “gender critical” views, has found for the complainants.
The courts have decided that a belief in the existence and immutability of biological sex and the need to protect sex-based rights are not transphobic but instead are a “protected belief” under equality legislation and “worthy of respect”.
The cases of, among others, Maya Forstater, Allison Bailey, Rachel Meade and latterly Shahrar Ali, of the Scottish Greens, have clearly shown the direction of legal travel.
Last May, when Labour swept the Greens from power in Brighton and Hove, I was hopeful that the new local administration might protect the rights of women and girls – especially given the early commitment given by leader Bella Sankey to challenge misogyny and protect women’s safety.
Councillor Sankey stated: “I refuse to lead a city where the status quo is tolerated or accepted.”
She added that the council intended to “challenge the pervasive misogyny that undermines women’s rights”.
I was delighted when, as part of its Re-imagine Brighton and Hove initiative, the council issued invitations to a consultation meeting about violence against women and girls. I failed to gain a place but anticipated positive feedback.
Within days, participants began to provide a very different picture. Brighton and Hove News reported allegations that survivors had been silenced, intimidated and aggressively denied the right to discuss issues of importance to them.
Allison Hooper, a survivor of sexual abuse, had prepared a short paper welcoming the consultation but expressing concern about the lack of same-sex local support services.
She did not attend but reports suggest that before the meeting the paper was quietly distributed on tables by another survivor.
Several witnesses describe a senior council officer then gathering them up and, in some cases actually snatching them out of people’s hands.
When challenged, council officers and councillors apparently dismissed the paper as “offensive” and “transphobic”, but were unable to support this by reference to the text.
Brighton and Hove News subsequently asked the council what specifically had been offensive but did not receive a response.
One participant told me: “There were several survivors there and at least two left early saying they felt upset and intimidated by what had happened. One was a disabled woman.
“Nothing was done to make it easier for survivors or people with additional needs. There was no back up or safe spaces to go to if you became distressed. There were no introductions. You didn’t know who anyone was. People stayed quiet for fear of being got at.”
During the meeting, participants used post-it notes to suggest topics for attention. At least two referred to the need for same-sex services but the issue was not discussed. One woman was heard to whisper: “You won’t get that discussed. It’s the elephant in the room.”
After the meeting finished, another survivor attempted to distribute Allison Hooper’s paper but became alarmed at the reaction.
She said “I was being deliberately and aggressively glared at as I tried to hand out the papers. It was intimidating. I decided to leave and then was chased to the stairs by a councillor.”
She described this councillor as “raising his voice” and “very angry”. She asked him what he found “offensive” in the leaflet. She said that he could not say and said that he had not read it.
At an event organised by @BrightonHoveCC with the title 'Re-imagine Brighton & Hove' with a focus on 'how we can make Brighton & Hove a safer city for women and girls'
Someone has just gone around the room SNATCHING the following documents from people. #VAWG pic.twitter.com/d7Bji8HRle
— FiLiA (@FiLiA_charity) January 29, 2024
Another participant, who represents a national charity and has recently settled here, was attending her first local council meeting.
When the officer attempted to physically remove her copy of the survivor’s statement, she twice had to say a loud “no”, holding the flat of her hand down forcibly on the paper in order to stop the officer removing it.
She said “I was stunned. I couldn’t believe this was being done by a council officer and in the presence of councillors.”
A few days later I spoke with the woman and was struck by how just how appalled she seemed. I pointed out that, in other parts of the country, her organisation had experienced serious misogynist attacks, insults and threats.
She replied “Those were by activists. These were elected councillors and senior council officers abusing survivors at a council consultation meeting about violence against women.
“They invited people to speak up and then they treated them like that. It was shocking. I’ve never seen anything like that before anywhere in the country.”
The issues here could hardly be more serious. It is not long since a distressed female member of the public, attempting to complete a question to full council about the child protection implications of the council’s gender policies, was allegedly silenced, humiliated and forced out of the council chamber.
Now numerous witnesses, including a representative of a national charity, said that women invited to a consultation about their safety, were silenced, humiliated and intimidated by senior personnel representing the council – and that no one intervened to protect them. There has been no apology, still less any call for individuals to be suspended or stand down.
Sarah Summers’s case, if she wins it, will highlight the grant-giving practices of a council that, in recent years, has failed to support and perhaps actively undermined single-sex provision.
There are complaints that many council policies and statements actively promote the concept of “gender”, which is not a protected characteristic, while airbrushing the concept of “sex”, which is protected.
In addition, the council’s generic “equalities” statement in employment advertisements routinely asserts that “to achieve our aims of proportionate representation, we particularly encourage applicants from a BME or White Other background as well as those who identify as disabled, male or trans”. Females are excluded. It is not a good look.
This raises questions about the quality of advice provided to councillors. Brighton and Hove believes itself to be at the cutting edge of progressive social policy with a firm grasp of human rights and equalities legislation.
I suspect this may not be the case and that the council may be sailing very close to the wind, still in thrall to “Stonewall law”.
Across the country, such practices are being challenged. Women who have been forced out of jobs and services as well as children denied protection have begun to turn to the actual law to protect their interests.
Even a high-profile barristers’ chambers has come to grief. It may only be a matter of time before this council ends up in court, facing legal humiliation and huge costs.
This administration is talented but very new. Given the relative lack of experience of many councillors and officers, it might be sensible for older, wiser heads among them to seek independent specialist advice, not just from council ideologues and the usual lobby group and voluntary sector suspects but from national organisations they may not have consulted before – bodies with expertise in sex-related equalities legislation and an understanding of current case law.
In the meanwhile, the council needs to understand that its reputation among women has been severely damaged. Women have been denied services, hurt and insulted. They are owed an apology.
Jean Calder is a campaigner and journalist. For more of her work, click here.
Single sex services are so desperately needed. I wish I was shocked that this had happened but I am not. Women, especially survivors need these spaces desperately. Thank you Jean for your writing on this subject. Women in Brighton need change, not old school misogyny.
Excellent, truthful and clear article. Thank you.
Thank you for putting so clearly what so many of us have experienced while also being told we are making things up/exaggerating/misunderstanding/not understanding/on the wrong side of history etc etc … I have contacted Tom Gray, Labour candidate for Brighton Pavilion, upwards of 30 times to ask his stance on protecting/providing single-sex services: so far, complete silence. Not even an acknowledgement. We need more people to be talking about this.
Thank you
Disgraceful treatment of women in the Council. An excellent article. Thank You Jean Calder.
The council should hang its head in shame. Its treatment of women is appalling and clearly doesn’t want to do anything to support them. Yet again a club for the misogynistic boys.
Great article, people are waking up and seeing the light of a ideology that is full of misogyny and it’s a danger to children questioning their gender or sexual orientation : and then leading them on a path of medical intervention that can cause them long term damage.
Far too many Councils are captured now without any knowledge on the Trans subject, they are so desperate to be ‘inclusive & kind’ to these ‘poor, marginalised’ men.
This Councils behaviour and attitude towards women at this event is atrocious. They all need sacking immediately. These people are a complete danger to women & children while they continue to champion men’s sexual rights & feelings before our safety and rights to safe spaces free from these fetishist predators.
Will you still think like this when it’s your Mother, daughter, sister, niece etc, who have been on the receiving end of sexual display & aggression from these ‘transwomen’ in a women only toilets or changing room? There’s plenty of instances of it happening everywhere. Do your groundwork & research properly, don’t you dare turn a blind eye to our genuine concerns and fears.
I was there and this is a true account. I was the person who put Allison’s document on tables at the start of the meetings. After the removal of the papers, i joined in the workshopping sessions, addressing the questions for debate with the seriousness they deserved and steered away from mentioning the elephant in the room as it was clear there was to be no mentioning of it. However, in spite of me giving the discussions the deserved attention, it was clear that this was a workshopping session that could only limp seeing as important items that deserve discussion were off the table.
Thank you for this article. It is hard to believe that councillors could act in this way. They prove that the council does indeed have a woman problem.
Wonderful article with some very sage advice for the elected officers and Councillors. I really hope that they act on what you’ve written, and get to grips with the issues pronto!
The unprofessional discrimination against women trying to have a voice is shocking in its misogyny . An investigation is required to establish whether these councillors were acting illegally under their employment. They should be disciplined , retrained or even fired. An apology is required at least, as an acknowledgment of their total lack of respect for woman and lack of safeguarding children !
‘Great and very brave article. Look what happens when women try to speak out. Honestly, shame on this council!
I made a clear statement to Brighton Survivors Network on 3 Oct 2018, when I with other survivors/victims staged a silent protest outside Brighton Survivors Network on the occasion of the visit of Duke & Duchess of Sussex.
1) We met a survivor of an horrific attack with horrific consequences going for a counselling session who had not even been made aware of the inclusion of transwomen.
2) After the crowd had dispersed we took the written statement into BSN from survivors & victims who were self-excluding.
3) We also made a video of that statement and posted it on YouTube.
“They cannot say they did not know.”
No effort was ever made to engage with us or with our concerns.
In fact by Oct 2018 I was already analysing UK govt sexual offender data showing a vast sex specific difference in sexual offending.
When are the simple facts going to matter?
PS #FairPlayforTransmen who barely appear in TG sexual offending.
BHCC also hates older people, disabled people and visitors.They even tried to chuck the Older Peoples’ Council out of Hove Town Hall the other day, after previously cutting their funding and free note taker for meetings.
Meanwhile they sit on a ‘capital investment’ pot of £10.7m for ‘Tackling Inequality’. I wonder who gets that and where the breakdown for how it is spent can be obtained.
https://www.brighton-hove.gov.uk/council-and-democracy/council-budget/our-capital-investment-programme-2024-2025
I am very grateful indeed that Jean Calder & indeed Brighton & Hove News have raised there heads above this particular parapet. It has been a very tough 5 years to be a rape survivor in Brighton.
Thank you Jean. This treatment of women is both abusive and farcical. Very disappointed in the Labour Council continuing with this misogyny. They need to step back and get an objective and compassionate perspective
Rape is increasing in this city and is domestic abuse- largely committed by men against women, with devastating impacts on the victims and their children- and now the council wants to intimidate survivors? Our rape crisis Survivors network has engaged in the same kind of abusive behaviour against women who want trauma-informed single sex support services- they will be in court this year. Yet this is who the Council is taking advice from which is at odds from good service provision, Labour national policy and the law.
100% of all rapes are committed by males.
In very rare cases females can be convicted of rape. 99% of sentenced sexual offenders are male.
95% of those raped are female. (ONS)
88% of those sexually offended against were female. ONS, Canada Stats, Australian Bureau of Statistics & Eurostats.
Thank you for this article. I was already somewhat aware of the sexism within Brighton council after the awful response to Sarah Summers and her very reasonable request for a single sex service for survivors of rape and sexual assault. I had hoped things might be improving but it seems that there are still activists working for the council who are determined to suppress women’s voices. Seeing the authoritarianism laid out in such detail is shocking.
#NoDebate is a strategy employed by those who have no confidence in the strength of their arguments. These zealous council officials obviously snatched up those leaflets because they were afraid that people would agree with what they read.
A Brighton Survivors Network happy enough to deploy MBE when it suited them but forgot to include me in a “consultation”, a research into whether the inclusion of transwomen adversely affected female service users. Hard to forget a volunteer whose talk to Quakers generated £150 donation. The abuses & abuses of trust of female rape survivors by this rape crisis organisation plumb new depths.
Even supposing the sexual offending metrics of transwomen as low as the exceptionally low rate of female population, in what parallel universe would you bully female rape survivors into submission. Another funding stream right?
Brighton and Hove Council only seem able to support women if those women include men in their services. This is wrong. In some circumstances women need separate services based on sex for their safety and decency.
But this is the council that has decided the government guidance to schools regarding the ‘transing’ of pupils is somehow illegal and they will not be recommending that schools follow it.
The council need to revisit their application of safeguarding to women and children.
This council is imposing their “trans toolkit”, gender ideolgy on schools whilst telling schools to ignore the Department for Education’s new guidelines. This surely has to be against the law….
So many children are being caused pyschological harm by this indoctrination.
So, yes, of course BHCC need to stop the damage they are doing to children as well as women.
The “trans toolkit” has been banned by other councils when faced with legal challenges.
Women and girls need to be protected.
Astonishing and appalling, but not surprising. Women’s needs have always been ignored in favour of men’s wants, now somehow misogynists have persuaded the left that this is progressive. Councillors and officers are in thrall to a pernicious, delusional cult.
A male , born with a penis, will always be a male. Whether he wears a frock, make up etc HE is male. Keep them out of women’s spaces .
MBE
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Human rights *&* responsibilities
Educating about basic democratic values by attending pride in almost every country in central & eastern Europe:
> Freedom of SPEECH
> Freedom of ASSOCIATION
> Freedom of & from RELIGION ie conscience
But not in my own country & not in my own city for daring to say
Rape survivor with medical symptoms of female specific rape trauma…
Ask any doctor the primary cause of Post Traumatic Stress…in female population. They will think Afghanistan & IEDs before blushing when you suggest…
Rape & other sexual offending…?
Female population do not receive medals for our routine hero-ism in the face of.. Domestic Terrorism…and certainly no training on Salisbury Plain… for girls & young women to resist what many of them will definitely face in their own country.
#SarahEverard – reporting to police?
Artificial suppression of rape reporting that is so obvious is the problem not the solution…
National Rape & Sexual Offending Agency/Bureau/ Register now so *all* subjected to this nightmare have a mechanism to report. How are we to learn anything without. #uglymugs is a mechanism that WORKS to catch sexual offenders at the earliest opportunity. NOT deploying it is costing a fortune to women and children of both sexes (not excluding transmen).
#Autism101…its ok if u dont follow but these are the logical joins if and as and when our society gets serious about tackling rape and other sexual offending/harassment (the backdrop to which the whole female population live their lives.
Transmen & nonbinary females: a rational effort to evade what a subset of male population want to do with us (there for all to see via the internet).
I see Ms Calder has published her article again.
In fairness, this one is more openly transphobic than most. She’s really developing a niche.
I agree BHCC has a problem with women.
Starting from the fact that it refuses to acknowledge material reality. Namely that it is impossible for anyone to change sex.
Therefore, irrespective of how they might like to be referred to, men who want to be seen as women remain men. They are male. Thus they cannot be allowed in single sex spaces, however nice these men may be.
Once the officers and councillors at BHCC grow some courage and accept and develop policy based on this reality, the safer women will be.
Women need spaces free from all men, for their safety and dignity, and this is not trumped by the wants of men who wish they were women, nor men who impersonate women to get into women-only spaces.
I think the issue is more like; after decade+ of austerity and multiple recessions.
Typically most survivors don’t have enough individual, specialised or mixed group support for; young people, parents and families, elderly, disabled people, people of different professions, cultures, beliefs, heritages or for lgbtqia+ people, hetrosexual, gender diverse, or binary, non binary or cis gender women or men.
As much as it is valid to complain about inequality, lack of service or validate any trigger of unresolved trauma, or have a safe complain or moan sometimes.. even about our own groups.
Nobody can blame or generalise whole groups of people and call this any form of healthy and not just more of a generalised trauma reaction.
We need accessible mixed groups and specialised single spaces for everyone.
Funded according to service need, not dictated by people dependent on profiteering from inequality or exclusion.
Survivor Network is an all survivor charity service, and includes specialised separate service branches for all lgbtqia+, gender diverse people, women and men<3
Non are big enough to meet service need locally, or nationally for anyone. That is not any survivors or service providers fault.
It’s nonsense attacking an all gender or public service for supporting all survivors or having a basic safegaurding guidance toolkits across the community …
maybe making sure everyone has enough would go further for the whole community.
Think it’s worth more discussing people of all sex’s and genders identities not having enough service support and the multitude of genuinely silenced traumatising places any survivor could be forced into with their abusers; like the family courts or when trying to report.
We need both singular and mixed survivor space inclusion to heal individual and community trauma.
At last this is being spoken about openly. After having to engage many council matters over the past 7 years I’m disgraced that I’ve not even come across anyone female in an positions of power or even semi positions just always admin. Every single time I meet with a member of the council they always bring another male colleague so as a lone female trying to explain anything I’m always at a total disadvantage. I’m a polite person who has been labelled as difficult or as the council like to say a CODE1. Good luck to all the fellow code 1’s out there!
Thank you for publishing this article. There has been a steady erosion of women’s rights in Brighton over the last decade and much of the blame lies with an over-zealous embrace of trans lobby groups and their demands, without a care about the effects on women. Brighton is becoming less safe for women as a result – rapes are up and rape crisis has been stripped of its trauma-informed women-only services. Women’s meetings are protested and disrupted and the police look on indulgently. The council has a responsibility to the women in its care and they must be held to account when they fall short. The local press could help by publishing more accounts from women such as this one.
Gosh, so much transphobia here. Horrible article and horrible comments all round !
I’ve just read the article and all the comments and your view is very much a minority one here, as well as wrong. It is not transphobic to seek to defend sex-based rights and women’s single-sex spaces, services and sports. Sex and gender identity aren’t the same and sometimes sex trumps gender in the provision of services.